Lilac Wine :: a warzone towards haiku

October 29, 2010

Strapping it on

Filed under: Text — Tags: — Lilac @ 8:00 am

What is the appeal of wearing a strap-on? my love asks, watching me update the queer porn site I intern at. Mmm, I like this question.

It’s a tool, an item of clothing, a symbol of power. I have analogies for a cisman in that it’s like the tools of kink: strapping on a cock is like picking up a flogger, and knowing your repertiore has increased. Like pulling on your boots and feeling the power invested/inherent in them. Like wearing a tie to present your gender in a formalised, attractive manner.

I think a better explanation for a cisman would be: What if you were in bed with a girl and didn’t have a cock? Wouldn’t you want one?


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